Why I Chose My Career as a Hairstylist in LA

A Journey of Self-Discovery

The question of why I chose my career often comes up with new clients. We all give superficial answers based on our comfort level. But if you’re reading this, let me share the real story straight from my heart.

Growing up as a Mexican-American boy in the suburbs outside of LA, I often struggled with my identity. I know I’m not alone in this. My journey was filled with reinvention—from the new kid in school to a fan of a specific music scene, and eventually, a private in the United States Army. Choosing to become a barber or hairstylist stemmed from a strong desire to see my ability to change my environment manifest physically. It became inseparable from my identity.

I don’t want to paint myself as just a do-gooder. There are many reasons behind my choice. At the core, I wanted to ensure that my work positively impacted human existence.

The Allure of LA

Ah, LA—the city of stars, dreamers, and their counterparts. What an opportunity to test my skills among some of the most competitive stylists and barbers. I felt the weight of this undertaking when I picked up my first shear and clipper. I was uncoordinated, impatient, and lacked focus. Starting something new gave me a chance to become part of a legacy of craftsmen whose lineage is as old as civilization itself. Without a deep sense of purpose, I knew I wouldn’t last long enough to reach my goal of becoming one of the great hairstylists in history.

A Turning Point in 2020

In March 2020, I was starting another semester of community college. The idea of dropping out of my Business undergrad popped into my head. I had tried various sales jobs and succeeded mildly, but I foresaw a future that didn’t sit well with me. I hadn’t left my elite military career to become just another middle manager at a tech company. I was aiming for the stars, chasing fortune and fame. In my late 20s, this seemed like a feasible goal.

The thought of becoming the next Hollywood hairstylist was enticing. But when I was in Hollywood in 2022, receiving hair education post-COVID, I realized what it would truly require. My brash personality made it clear—I wasn’t going to become the next big Hollywood hairstylist. Plus, the socio-political landscape of Hollywood in 2025 is a caricature of its glory days. Go look for yourself; it’s a sad reality.

Embracing My Unique Style

Returning to my "why," I’ve always had a unique sense of self-expression through body art, music, and fashion. My love for art evolved from my grandmother’s old movies and after-school shopping trips with my mom. There’s something magical about a mall filled with stores that allow us to dress as anyone we want—a hoodlum, a sophisticated gentleman, a skater, or a yogi.

This might sound like romanticizing late-stage capitalism, but I’d rather see life through rose-colored lenses than critique the spoils of warfare that put me where I am today.

Crafting My Skills

Having a keen sense of personal style and a passion for art positions me perfectly to develop my design eye for haircuts. I see myself as an architect for each of my clients. I understand my skill level and the expertise I provide. This reflects my initial idea of positively impacting the world through communication. I aim to understand who my clients are and what look they want. I take my ego out of the equation and use my tools, skill, knowledge, and experience to tailor their hair to their liking.

This journey wasn’t easy and deserves its own blog post. Every self-help book and spiritual text I’ve consumed emphasizes the idea of 10,000 hours. I believe I’m nearing that mark in hands-on practice. With every hour, I feel the confidence that comes from repetition. There’s a genuine sense of pride in knowing I’ve honed not just my hard skills but also the soft skills that set me apart as a communicator.

The Spiritual Side of My Work

Now, let’s get a little woo-woo. These days, I strive to maintain my physical vessel as a clear channel, especially when I’m working. I try not to let everyday problems interfere with my goal of co-creating and serving my community. I’m human, and I have my off days. But the more I pour into my work as a spiritual practice and let go of the desire for fame and fortune, the more I see myself and my business grow.

Reflecting on my past mistakes and achievements, I’m proud to say I’m happy, content, and excited about where I’m headed in life. For me, that’s enough.

If you’re interested in exploring your own style journey, feel free to reach out. Let’s create something amazing together!